Sometimes you have to say goodbye to 'old friends'. People might call you unsocial but consider that you become like the 5 people you spend most of your time with. This is your life. So have a good look at those 5 people, are they supporting you on what you want to accomplish or holding you back?
Go forth and make it count,
Consciously or not, there are existing lineages of families who have been using a specific success formula.