Those who win big in life take responsibility.
When a person refuses to accept responsibility for their life, they turn all of their power over to other people, situations or circumstances. They are no longer in control of their future. They will be hoping something good will happen, but because of past experience they will very likely be expecting something they do not want to happen. When you accept responsibility for your life and for the results which you alone determine, you will develop confidence that your plans can be carried out.
Consciously or not, there are existing lineages of families who have been using a specific success formula.