Reflect on this:
"The greatest mistake a man can make is to be afraid of making one." - Elbert Hubbard
There is no Status Quo of Security. Everything is in motion, always. Things, situations and people constantly change. You need to change too, get out of your comfort zone. Study, try, seek failure because that will make you grow.
Consciously or not, there are existing lineages of families who have been using a specific success formula.