How often have you caught yourself saying, "I would like to do or have this but I can't because..."
Whatever follows "because" is a circumstance. Circumstances may cause a detour in your life but you should never permit them to stop you from making important decisions.
Napoleon said, "Circumstances, I make them."
The next time you hear someone say they would like to vacation in Paris or purchase a particular car but they don't have the money, explain that they don't need the money until they make a decision to go to Paris or purchase the automobile.
Consciously or not, there are existing lineages of families who have been using a specific success formula.