Becoming a parent is a big thing and we are all trying to do the best we can.
But here is the thing, there was a moment where I realized that I would say the exact same thing to my daughter my parents said to me! And I said it to her without even thinking. Evaluating the message I was sending I couldn’t help but admit that this was truly not the idea I wanted to give her.
It was then that I started paying attention to what I was saying and what effect it would have own her. She is now doing her gratitude list and I taught her how her mind works.
This really empowers her because she already has the awareness why sometimes she is fearful and how she can help herself to overcome it.
My wish for her is to grow up a strong, happy girl, with no limiting beliefs in regards to what she can accomplish.
What message are you sending your kids?
Consciously or not, there are existing lineages of families who have been using a specific success formula.