Can't is a word that paralyzes any constructive process. It switches your mind into a negative frequency. It is a four letter word that will open your mind to a never ending flow of logical, practical reasons which will enable you to justify why you are not able to do something you sincerely want to accomplish.
The only alternative to that four letter word is its polar opposite - I CAN.
I can is far more important than IQ! You don't necessarily have to be very smart to win... but you must be willing.
There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error - experimentation. The failed experiments are as much part of the process as the experiment that ends up working.
A lesson is repeated until learned. When you have learned it you can then go on to the next lesson.
Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of life that does not contain lessons. If you are alive, there are lessons to be learned.
"Among other things, crisis represent opportunities to grow in wisdom. When you approach each crisis with this attitude, you will pluck the opportunity out of each situation and benefit from it. This attitude also sets the stage mentally for you to continue to grow."
Great Event last Friday at one of Los Cabos' hotels. Grateful for the opportunity to make people think, reflect and ultimately smile. GRACIAS!
The common denominator of success - the secret of success of every person who has ever been successful - lies in the fact that they formed the habit of doings things that 'failures' don't like to do.
So what are the things that 'failures' don't like to do you ask? The exact same things successful people don't like to do naturally. In other words, success is something which is achieved by the minority of people because they are not giving into their dislikes. Instead they are doing the things they don't like anyways. The trick is to do them regular until they become a habit and a routine in their daily life.
Are you ever puzzled when you see a person of average intelligence producing extraordinary results? Here's where you can solve the puzzle. That individual has changed their paradigm/habit which enabled them to produce the results you are observing. Clearly understand when you have an awareness of how the paradigm functions, then you can start taking control of the results you are getting and go after the goals that you want.
Paradigms keep people operating at 40 miles an hour even though there is infinite horse power under the hood. We never get up to the speed we are capable of and... if we did, we'd astonish ourselves.
Napoleon Hill wrote in his world recognized book "Think and Grow Rich":
"Broadly speaking, there are two types of people in the world. One type is known as LEADERS, and the other as FOLLOWERS. Decide at the outset whether you intend to become a leader in your chosen calling, or remain a follower. The difference in compensation is vast. The follower cannot reasonably expect the compensation to which a leader is entitled, although many followers make the mistake of expecting such pay. It is no disgrace to be a follower. On the other hand, it is no credit to remain a follower. Most great leaders began in the capacity of followers. They became great leaders because they were INTELLIGENT FOLLOWERS. With few exceptions, the man who cannot follow a leader intelligently, cannot become an efficient leader. The man who can follow a leader most efficiently, is usually the man who develops into leadership most rapidly. An intelligent follower has many advantages, among them the OPPORTUNITY TO ACQUIRE KNOWLEDGE FROM HIS LEADER."
This is by far one of the most important principle for anybody who aspire to become a Leader in his chosen calling. As a matter a fact it is the foundation of leadership to become an INTELLIGENT FOLLOWER. I ask earlier in the title, if you are a leader or a follower. The truth is we are all both, in some cases you need to be an intelligent follower and in other cases you must take the role of a leader. Understand that in order to become the best Leader you can possibly be you must embrace your obligation of becoming FIRST an INTELLIGENT FOLLOWER.
Consciously or not, there are existing lineages of families who have been using a specific success formula.