Here is a strong statement:
You will never accomplish anything until you believe you can.
How often does your inner dialogue conclude with "I believe I can't" and you don't even try? Disbelief in your own abilities is part of your programming. The good news is that with a lot of discipline, persistence and continuous work you can re-program yourself.
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Go forth and make this day count,
Consciously or not, there are existing lineages of families who have been using a specific success formula.